Dealing with Myself

As much as I provide support and expertise to my clients, they also help me. Sharing what strategies are effective for each of them helps me compile an arsenal of options for success. Recently, a client made SIGNIFICANT improvements to her healthy living habits. Giddy with pride and joy for the implications to her life, I pressed her with the question: “What is making making the difference between completing your habit and not?” Her answer was honest and endearing. She stated, “Just completing the task is easier than ‘dealing with myself’.” I know exactly what she means and I suspect you do too.  

Instead of making excuses, procrastinating or enduring a self induced guilt trip, she realized that if she just did it – it was easier. This new plan of attack is simple and brilliant. We are often our own greatest obstacle. What a fabulous revelation – “get out of the way and just get it done.” You didn’t need to read this post to understand this concept but you may have needed to read this client’s experience to be inspired to try it for your self.  

These next seven days, whatever the healthy goal, I invite you to just “get ‘er done.” Don’t think, don’t debate, don’t bargain, don’t avoid – just do it. I’m incredibly optimistic you will be quite happy with the results.

Photos of My Fridge

What is so special about my refridgerator that I needed to send you pictures? Nothing, except for one detail – placement. I am always on the look out for painless, simple tricks with powerful results. Here is one of my favorite. Next time you return home from the grocery store, place all of you fresh fruits and vegetables front and center on refrigerator shelves (not in the crisper drawers.) Unlike blueberries and greens, I have never forgotten about cheese or bread simply because it was out of sight in the drawer. Place room temperature fruits and veggies in a bowl on the counter. Seeing your nutrient rich foods is a huge help in ensuring that you actually eat them. Hope this money saving, healthy living tip appeals to you too!

 

Thank you so much to everyone attending our Open House Sunday and to those that helped spread the word. It was a pleasure to connect with each of you and I look forward to our individual follow ups. BFIT Open House Jan 2012

Need a public speaker? Email train@blakelyfit.com

 Fat Sick and Nearly Dead  

My advice this week is simple: sit back, curl up on the couch and watch a movie (one in particular.) I recently viewed Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead, a documentary by Australian, Joe Cross. It chronicles his journey to be free of medications, pain and imbalance as he travels across the United States on a juice fast. I found this movie motivating, unpretentious, and accessible. Add it to your Netflix cue (search under documentaries), tablet or laptop. It’s a great choice for anyone in need of some logical inspiration in an entertaining package. Drop me a line with your review.

Good on ya, mate! ~ Michelle

Rest if you must…

Rest if you must, but don’t you quit…
Grandma and Dad Fishing 
During post holiday blues and overzealous fitness routine soreness, I have a few words for you: “Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.” This message has always been very close to my heart as it was first delivered to me by my paternal grandmother (above with my father), a remarkable woman in her own right – authentic farm girl, RN, survivor of the Depression, mother of 5 (before nannies and formula), pleasant, happy, engaging and unequivocally one of the kindest and most resilient women I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Over the years my grandmother taught me a lot by how she lived her life and one that has always stuck with me was: “rest if you must, but don’t you quit.” 

Changing your life for the better is hard – rewarding and worth every drop of sweat in the end – but, still hard. So, during what might be a precarious week for New Year’s Resolution commitment, I implore you NOT to quit. I’ve attached a version of the poem below. I do hope that “rest if you must, but don’t you quit” will help you in a challenging moment. This being “healthy and happy” journey is a marathon, not a sprint. Taking a break here and there, or reevaluating your plan to find better support or more realistic timelines are good decisions. Think of individuals that inspire you when the going gets tough, keep your chin up and keep on with the good fight. You can do this.

And in the vein of my grandmother, THANK YOU. Thank you so much for reading. It is an honor to have your attention and feedback. All my best on those resolutions! ~Michelle

 
I’d love to see you at the open house: 

Open House Sunday, January 22nd from 10:30am to noon. 

Email to reserve your space train@blakelyfit.com

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,

When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,

When the funds are low and the debts are high,

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit-Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,

As every one of us sometimes learns,

And many a fellow turns about

When he might have won had he stuck it out.

Don’t give up though the pace seems slow -You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than

It seems to a faint and faltering man;

Often the struggler has given up

Whe he might have captured the victor’s cup;

And he learned too late when the night came down,

How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out -

The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,

And you never can tell how close you are,

It might be near when it seems afar;

So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit -It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.

OPEN HOUSE

Personal Training Open House 

Sunday, January 22nd

10:30am to 12noon

Informative presentation: 

“The Ultimate Secret to Weight Loss for Women.”

Talk starts promptly at 10:45am.

Free Caribou Coffee, treats and tours.

$50 off all personal training purchases on the day of event.

$20 Lululemon gift cards to the first five women that bring a friend.

(must register at train@blakelyfit.com to qualify)

Blakely FIT Open House takes place at 

Symmetry Center 401 West Ontario, 4th Floor

Reserve your space by emailing train@blakelyfit.com

FREE

What the Today Show and New York Times Missed

During my warm-up at the gym, the Today Show caught my attention. Dr. Nancy Snyderman and Joy Bauer, RD were discussing the results of a new study in the New England Journal of Medicine that addresses the hormonal implications to dieting. They gave some good suggestions and validated the incredible challenge that overweight people experience in the efforts to lose weight. After my work out, I went to my computer and read through the New York Times article referenced. Columnist, Tara Parker-Pope discussed the topic in detail in her article The Fat Trap. The overwhelming data states that we are more challenged after losing weight via intense dieting. Our hormones change and cravings alter. When you cut back on your calorie intake significantly your body tries to save you from the famine (because why else would you reduce your food intake so drastically). It alters protocol and holds on to body fat. This coverage COULD be demoralizing to another reader, but my hope is that you know better. What the well intentioned authors missed was strength training. Not only does strength training have significant positive implications for your bones, brain, hormones, pregnancy, physique and weight maintenance it is the only method that I know of to increase the number of calories you burn while at rest. And that is a message that needs to be delivered.

 

Call it what you like, resistance training, lifting weights, toning, strengthening, adding muscle. Whatever the term, the idea is to add muscle mass to your body to increase your metabolism (calorie expenditure).  This is still being overlooked in the mainstream media as an important part of the weight loss / being healthy solution- I want you to know better. Whether it’s joining me for personal training or push ups and resista-band squats in your living room, we can enjoy the tremendous benefits of strength training. Hopefully, success will spread the word, one person at a time.

(Well, maybe a few at a time, I did email NYT author – will keep you posted if I receive a reply)

I have given this a lot of thought. What single gem will really make a difference in your 2012 resolution? My advice…

Get Help

Whatever your health goal for 2012, the best suggestion I can give you is to enlist help in your endeavors. Maybe, the initial reaction is “Thanks, but I can do it on my own.” Forgive my direct reply but “Why haven’t you?” The truth is, healthy living is simple. Simple, not easy. We know what we should be doing and yet we don’t. The missing link is acknowledging that your goal is important and that you need help to get there. What do we do in other areas of our lives? We get quality help and our lives are better for it. You might trim your bangs on occasion but you probably don’t give yourself a full haircut. Below are a few examples to get your juices flowing.

Goal:

  • Limit my risks for heart disease/diabetes
  • Finally lose 5/20/50 pounds
  • Help my overweight husband/partner/children
  • Feel as fit as I used to
  • Have my body be my best fashion asset (even with Prada in the closet)

Decide your weakness:

  • I’m scared to go to the doctor to find out my risks/blood work
  • I’m tired of failing
  • Nagging ends in no one being happy
  • I’m too tired to work out
  • I’m intimidated at the gym

Enlist help:

  • Have a friend or relative go with you to the doctor appointment with questions written down and notes taken during appointment(s)including follow up care
  • Sign up for class or personal training with a very optimistic, positive leader with substantial success record
  • Find family/couple activities that take you out of the driver seat (bowling, parent/tot/couple dance classes, open gym at park district, couples tennis lessons)
  • list your activity and eating differences between then and now and sign up for help in those areas
  • Sign up for shorter duration and ultra beginner activities to start
  • Hire a trainer (I’m never intimidated at the gym and it rubs off on my clients)

Then, what?

1. Start working with in your new system. Remember, I said simple, not easy.

2. Evaluate. Is your help helping? If not, find another helper.

I wish you all the best in identifying your needs and accomplishing your goals. Need help with your help? I’m just a phone call or email away.Happy Happy New Year to you and yours!

Dinner Tonight and Easy Help

In an effort to help you stay healthy during these busy times, here are a few economical and easy ideas. Enjoy!
Dinner Tonight:
  • a cooked rotisserie chicken ($7)
  • a bag of washed mixed greens ($4)
  • a small loaf of fresh whole wheat bread or rolls ($4)
  • some fresh berries ($4)

Remove all the skin of the chicken and debone, add some dressing to the greens, warm the rolls and add a sprinkle of sugar to the berries after rinsing. Healthy, filling and nutrient rich all while tasting homemade.

Stress Relief: Take full deep exhales and inhales while squeezing your limbs from close to the center of the body out to the ends of your fingers and toes as though you were squeezing a tube of toothpaste. Have a partner on hand? Offer to help each other – it’s such a simple concept even the “massage challenged” can deliver.

Need to exercise? Search “Yoga” or “Dance” or “Cardio” on your TiVo or DVR system and record the next available class. Enjoy first thing in the morning of after the kids have gone to bed. Even ten minutes of exercise will leave you feeling rejuvenated.

Next week… New Year’s Resolution help.

Wishing you and yours a very Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah!

Blakely FIT

Strength Training Exclusively for Women

www.blakelyfit.com  773-680-6824  train@blakelyfit.com

 Operating out of Symmetry Center:  401 West Ontario, 4th Floor, Chicago IL 60610

Gift Ideas Large and Small

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Great Gift Ideas ~ Large and Small

 After discouraging you from buying last week, I thought it only fair to offer some helpful suggestions for the exercising woman in your life. (Or, feel free to forward this on to people looking for a great gift for you.)

Free: Mix CD: Music is an outstanding motivator. Make it funny, make it romantic, or make it inspiring. She’ll love the time you put in and the mid workout motivation.

$10 to $50:

Small Toiletries Kit (make sure it has a hook) or buy travel sizes of her favorite shampoo, conditioner, soap and lotion to really personalize

Body Shammy

Full Size Bath Towel (gym towels are too tiny for anyone over a size 6)

New Yoga Mat (community mats are just that, community)

New Goggles (for your swimmer)

MP3 or iPod arm holder for workouts

New Flip flops for the shower

New refillable Water Bottle (with cleaning tabs or cartridge if needed)

$50 and above: 

Blakely FIT gift certificate (this one’s my favorite) 773-680-6824

Urban Oasis, Message Envy or favorite spa gift card to soothe those hard working muscles

Lululemon gift card for those high quality, last forever workout clothes you can actually run to the store in afterward

Heart Rate Monitor or Body Bug for the woman who loves to track her progress with computers

I hope these are a help! Wishing you a low stress week and time for your rejuvinating workouts.

Do NOT Buy This Gift

Treadmill

Do NOT Buy This Gift

Unless you are in need of a very expensive dry cleaning clothes hanger please do not buy yourself a piece of cardio equipment for your home this Christmas or Hannukah. I have been a personal trainer for over ten years and I can count on one hand the number of people that actually use their home cardio equipment. Your money and home are too important. Pieces of cardio equipment are expensive, space consuming and when unused, guilt inducing.

I do understand why you want to purchase these items for you or your loved one. It is the promise of health, beauty, energy, a slim physique, convenience and accomplishment. Who doesn’t love all of those things? But the truth of the matter is – these machines go unused. It is not the piece of equipment that delivers success. It is the habit and the action. The act of consistantly exercising over weeks and months changes our bodies and our energy level. A piece of equipment can only deliver such changes if you’re on it.

If you are still unconvinced, I invite you to take this test for one month. Decide a cardio schedule as if you had purchased new home equipment (i.e. “I will exercise on my cardio equipment every M,W,F at 6am for 40 minutes”.) And every time you were planning on working out – use a work out DVD (rentable form Library for free or use the one that’s been sitting on your shelf) or dance in your living room or walk outside – remember this is just for four weeks. If after four weeks you have completed all the cardio sessions – maybe you are the exception to the rule but if not – you just saved your self potentially thousands of dollars and a big guilt trip.

I realize it’s disappointing to have the curtain pulled back. Know that there are solutions and tools that can help. Give me a call if you would like to see what personal training can offer. I am the closest thing available to “habit delivery” and would love to help you feel all that the infomercial is promising.

Blakely FIT
Strength Training Exclusively for Women

www.blakelyfit.com  773-680-6824  train@blakelyfit.com

 Training out of Symmetry Center: 401 West Ontario, 4th Fl., Chicago IL 60610